Rediscovering America- Lift Off and Day One

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Ahh….to be on the open road!

As it turns out, getting out of Eugene was half of the battle of day one. My beautiful wife is time challenged. This is no secret, and there is no denying it (although denial is part of the symptoms). It runs on her side of the family, like some sort of curse that afflicts the women in their mid-20s.  I thought it may skip a generation, but alas, more than one of my children suffer from the same affliction, and no amount of “fudging” the real launch time makes a difference. They seem to sense what the breaking point is of everyone else around them, and then delay just a “few more minutes” past that.

loading7A turned into 8A and finally 8:30A…but we DID achieve launch with no blood let.

We came armed with loads of music, a couple of “books on tape” (including one for our book club which meets a week after our return), and for the first time, tried playing Podcasts through the bluetooth in the new Highlander.

It was a raving success. In fact…we became so enthralled with “Binge-podding” the series, “Serial,” that we blew right by the exit to Hwy. 84, not realizing we had done so, until we were crossing the Columbia River into Washington and headed for Vancouver on I-205.

Holyfreakinshirt!!! A minor diversion that was repeated again in Hood River. Not kidding. The two “detours” cost us a mere 45 minutes of backtracking. But, hey…that was good for another chapter of “Serial.”

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Rediscovering America – The Prequel

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Merriam Webster defines bucket list as:
noun
Popularity: Bottom 50% of words
|Definition of bucket list
1:  a list of things that one has not done before but wants to do before dying.

OK then. Kinda bleak and to the point. Which may explain why the term is in the “Bottom 50% of words.”  But, I have always laughed when thinking of the term, “kicking the bucket,” when I hear the term “bucket list.”

Dark? You want dark? How about this, from the Urban Dictionary?
Phrase used to say someone is dead or has deceased. Term is derived from when suicides were common by a person preparing to hang himself, and used a bucket to stand on, and then kicked the bucket when suicide was desired.
example: Ole’ Charlie kicked the bucket today, we better prepare for his funeral.

Ergh. Ok then. So, a “bucket list” should be some pretty cool stuff. And, I think mine is.

But recently, after a rash of deaths of friends and acquaintances of mine and Deb’s, who were all our age or younger, we decide to “do the trip.” Fueled by the constant repetition of the phrase, “there are no guarantees in this life,” we set about making plans.

“The Trip” has been on my “Bucket List” for decades. The reasons for this exact trip are far more complex than just being the contents of a bucket. I am looking for some answers…

We will be touching twenty states in a little over 29 days. Two old married people (one far older than the beautiful younger one) in a Toyota Highlander, crammed to the brim with stuff. Hotels, B&Bs, Friends and Family will all be supplying our rest stops along the way, with a variety of “must see sites” from Mt. Rushmore to the Great Sand Dunes of Colorado, with about every sort of attraction in between.

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Learning What You DON’T Want, To Help Find What You Do Want…

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Wisdom. It’s such an overused, yet underutilized thing…right?

But the advantage of being “well past middle-age” (no…I’m not going to live to be more than 120 years old), is that experience really has given me some words of wisdom for those who may stumble upon them (I used to write these on large stones and leave them in random places).

It seems that Generation Millennial (I’m sorry that they ran out of letters from you guys after X and Y), are really struggling with finding the right job…or in some cases…any job, after going tens of thousands of dollars into debt to get a college degree.

Well…take it from someone who “exited before the final act” in college (I tell people that I graduated Cum in my class…as in In Cum Plete), there are worse ways to “find success” than your path.

Observe.

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Seriously?? You Are Taking Another “Selfie?”

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from the comic strip Pickles

I know this has been covered by loads of people, across loads of social media…but damn, I don’t see it getting any better.

I would like to start this conversation by asking, “JUST HOW MANY FREAKIN’ PICTURES OF YOURSELF DOES THE WORLD NEED?????”

Let’s not forget that I have been on the “bleeding edge” of Social Media, before they started calling it social media. I was an early developer for AOL (remember AOL?), and have watched every incarnation of ways to “share about yourself” develop and multiply through the X, Y, and Millennial generations in ways that even a “visionary” like myself could not have predicted.

But, enough…is…enough. Really.  

And that goes for YOU, who probably found this site through social media, where you have tons of pictures of what you had for breakfast, where you last had a beer, the funny thing you found on your face this morning (oh…wait…that was me), or the latest “filtered” Instragram pic of you and your “homies” (do you still call your friends homies?) out for a night on the town.

I did some research on this topic…and was SHOCKED to find out what this meant to my own attempt to “leave a digital imprint” on the world…
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